Personal experience

A BEAUTIFUL GIRL:-

A story i feel will make you think about someone

It is a story of a boy and a girl, they meet with each other in an very unusal way, however in a short duration of time they became good friends however the only problem was they were in different cities however in the same field of study.
Now, the boy and the girl were quite different in their thought process and in the manner they accept, analyze, adopt, and act regarding needless to say, things and persons yet their bonding surpass every odd situation and boundries as they do feel togetherness does not need acceptance it just need understanding and trust
after taking with each other over telephone only deepns their desire to meet with each other and they just share everything of their life covering their past, present, and even future being unaware of what destiny has stored for them.
There were some incidences which force them to fall for each other however the reason of both the persons were completely opposite where boy was attracted towards the simplicity, down to earth nature, family values, and the extent of purity she has in herself and the girl was attracted towards the boy as she really apreciate the level of confidence, ability to entertain, the wide range of topics of his choice and most important the amount of softness he has for her
eventually they do fall for each other however due to some behavrioual differences the girl decided to walk away and then the boy chase the girl with all his ability and believes as he realises the fact that if today he is a better person it is just because of the girl

Relationship

Each Relationship Needs Its Sacred Space

Relationships are so complicated; sometimes we are just playing them out in our minds and hearts, without realising they have no reality beyond that. Two people could be relating to each other on different wavelengths without understanding that the notes they strike are at variance with each other.

'I Love You' Is Always More Important Than 'YOU LOVE ME'

My emotions cloud my reality more than another's anytime. You would imagine that sometimes it's better not to put relationships through a reality check; they may receive a rude shock that could probably shatter, and certainly crack them. A few hard home truths could bring your illusory castle tumbling down.

If relationships are so self-oriented, any meaningful relationship entered into has to play itself out withing a mutual space, where two people voluntarily allow the entrance of another and choose to open up to that person. Every relationship involves a great degree of trust, as well as vulnerability and intimacy. The healtheist relationships are those where, as trust builds over time, we are no longer scared of exposing and entrusting our vulnerbilities into the care of our singficant other. This then becomes the basis of a steady, lasting tie.

What then emerges strongly is our voluntary acceptance of a sense of duty and sincerity towards another, our determination to consider someone our own and so, go out on a limb for them because we consider him or her ''mine''. My friend, my family, my child, my spouse, my lover, my idol, my follower.... And when you do that, you strike up a relationship that is based on trust and exclusivity.

The exclusivity factor cannot be ingnored. You cannot be, nor do you wish to be one of many to someone you are in a relationship with.  A relationship is a sacred trust between two people. People enter a relationship when they allow their hearts and souls to open up and touch each other. We all need to feel meaningfully connected to someone, to create an exclusive zone where we are singnificant to the other person in the relationship.

This vulnerability, the need for exclusivity, is what creates issues of distrust in a world were we all reach out to several people, each of whom we may share a special bond with. As such, it becomes incumbent on us to protect the vulnerabilities and exclusiveness of the relationships that mean most to us. Your intimate space with your sister could be threatened by the space you share with a friend and vice versa. Children have been known to feel insecure of a strong parental relationship where they see no space for themselves. Fathers are envious of sons who are close to mothers in an intimate space of their own.

You cannot just close your eyes and demand trust.

How can trust be built up in relationships? Trust is the shakiest and the first of our vulnerabilities to fall. It can only be built with care, patience and time, and requires investment from both parties.

What hepls build trust is creating and respecting a separate sacred space for each our relationships. A space that cannot be allowed to merge with the space accorded to another. Not even the relationship between three siblings is the same.

You will always relate with one differently than you would with the other, and the dynamics changes when all three are together. Even a mother shares an exclusive relationship with each of her children.

A message that is sent to you exclusively by a friend holds much more meaning than a copy/paste job sent to several. A friend who greets with a wide grin and shared confidences send a thrill of pleasure, till you note he shares the same with all.

You cannot possibly strike the same notes with everyone you meet. To be one of many in what you consider an exclusive space diminishes that relationship for you.

Love is abov trusting another enough to allow the barriers of your heart and soul to fall. It is also about giving your significant other the trust that you will protect the vulnerbilities they thus expose to you.

This is best done in an environment of trust where we make the effort to build confidence and maintain an exclusive, sacred space for our loved ones.

Landscape Of The Soul

There Is a way or a manner in which any art form can be presented so that their actual beauty or the purpose with which they have been given shape can be presented or could succeed to achieve an delicate realism so that and so forth that it doesn't leave back a single line of empty space.

These stories illustrate what each form of art is trying to achieve: a perfect, illusionist likeness in one part of the world, the essence of inner life and spirit in another.

In different stories it is mention the way art has been comprehended in its different form, for example, a painting appreciates its outer appearance however, only an artist can reveal to us the true meaning of his work, as he knows the way within. "Dao", a word that means both path or the method, and the mysterious works of the universe. The painting may get destroyed, but the artist has reached his goal-beyond any material appearance.

A classical landscape is not meant to reproduce an actual view, as would a western figurative painting. Whereas the European painter wants you to borrow his eyes and look at a particular landscape exactly as he saw it, from a specific angle, the classical painter does not choose a single viewpoint. His landscape is not a 'real' one, and you can enter it from any point, then travel in it; the artist creates a path for your eyes to travel up and down, then back again, in a leisurely movement. This is even more true in the case of the horizontal scroll, in which the action of slowly opening one section of the painting, then rolling it up to move on to the other, adds a dimension of time which is unknown in any other form of painting.

It also requires the active participation of the viewer, who decides at what pace he will travel through the painting- a participating which is physical as well as mental. The classical painter does not want you to borrow his eyes; he wants you to enter his mind. The landscape is an inner one, a spiritual and conceptual space.

This concept is expressed as Sanshui, literally mean, 'Mountain Water', which used together represent the word 'Landscape'. More than two elements of an image, these represent two complementary poles, reflecting the Daoist view of the universe.
The mountain is Yang- reaching vertically towards Heaven, stable, warm, and dry in the sun, while the water is Yin- horizontal and resting on the earth, fluid, moist and cool. The Interaction of Yin, the receptive, feminine aspect of universal energy, and its counterpart Yang, active and masculine, is of course a fundamental notion of Dauism. What is often overlooked is an essential third element, the middle void where their interaction, takes place. This can be compared with the yogic practice of Pranayama; breath in, retain, breathe out- the suspension of breath is the void where meditation occurs. The middle void is essential-nothing can happen without it; hence the importance of the white, unpainted space in classical landscape.

This is also where man find a fundamental role. In that space between Heaven and Eubh he becomes the conduit of communication between both poles of the universe. His presence is essential, even if it's only suggested; far from being lost or oppressed by the lofty peaks, he is, in Francois Cheng's wonderful expression,
"the eye and the soul of the landscape"